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Home. [Sep. 24th, 2009|12:07 am]
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Just put a few things away before bed.  Sort of floored because I'm glancing around with someone else's eyes. 

Disney princesses lunchbox on the kitchen table, beside plate of cookies for V's class.
A well-organized basket o' school items.
Dining room table set with good china pieces
Living room clean, but definitely lived-in.
Dress rack with dress-up clothes, toy boxes full, shelves stacked with kid-friendly movies.
A night spent sorting too-small little girl clothes, sending some to Goodwill and stowing others away.
Tomorrow's lunches on my mind.
Clean floors.

When did I become a mom?  And it would appear I'm not failing at it as much as I usually think I am.
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Ain't Nothin' but a V Thing [Jun. 24th, 2009|05:19 pm]
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This is the side of us nobody sees : seasons, updates, SC thoughts [Jun. 23rd, 2009|09:08 am]
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I have to say, I love that this summer has been busy.  Even though not all is right with the world, I feel alive.  I think I post more in the winter because less happens.  :-D  Now that we're active and outside and running all over the countryside, I don't have time for lengthy posts.

When I lived in South Carolina, I never understood seasons.  The grass grew in spring, died out in summer (droughts and sandy ground and all), the leaves turned colors for autumn, and in winter we got some frost, but it rarely dipped below fifty degrees.  

Here?  It's mostly snow, and then some rain, and then sunshine (like today), and the leaves turn for about a week, and then snow snow snow snow snow, oh hey it's ice. 

The rain, sunshine, and gorgeous autumn leaves?  That I really do like about Ohio.  I also like that once the snow goes away, the ground is SERIOUSLY verdant.  Green EVERYWHERE, and don't you think you can stop it.  I first came up here in summer and was utterly amazed at how green stuff was.  Also, no Palmetto trees. 

????? Y NO PALMETTOS ?????

Well, that's not entirely true.  I see a handful of Palmetto trees / SC state flags stuck to the rear windows of cars.  Turns out it's not a bunch of transplanted Carolinians so much as it is people who vacation in SC.  But still, I get a thrill whenever I see a Palmetto and Crescent Moon logo.

Palmettos are EVERYWHERE in Columbia.  I didn't realize this until my last trip down.  I'd just grown up with them being everywhere.  

I mean EVERYWHERE.  They're a constant theme in decor.  They're in wall hangings, towels, rugs, desk art.... Srsly, next time you head to SC, you look around.  Restaurants have them.  Doctor's offices.  The Columbia-Metropolitan Airport had this horrendous blue-and-white (the state colors) Palmetto print carpeting that used to make me dizzy whenever I looked at it.  

I love the theme, though.  LOVE it.  Love that pride, love that sense of belonging.  Whenever I even see a regular palm tree, I feel comforted.

Buckeyes?  Well, let's just say Ohio doesn't much pull out the buckeye except for dessert trays.  Never had a buckeye (the sugary thing, not the nutty thing)?  [info]manderley23  will make one for you.

I haven't been home in about two years, and I'm really missing it -- especially now that my sister moved back with her daughters.  I can't tell you how much I want to go there for the holidays this year.  Really trying to make it happen, too.  It'd be AWESOME if we could do that.  Get out of the freezing freezies here for a bit, too.  

Okay, other than the weather and home-state-sickness, here's what's been going on.

Writing
Hit 50k on my revisions yesterday.  Have gone over reader's report again to make sure I know what to look out for this half of the manuscript.  I still can't see the light at the end of the tunnel, but knowing I'm on the right track as far as voice goes helps tons.

Made airline reservations for [info]sboman 's writing retreat in No. Cal, in August. I can't believe this is happening, and I am SO stoked.  I was lucky enough to snatch up super-cheap airline tickets -- otherwise I wouldn't be able to make it.  

My current goal is wrap up this draft by the first of August.  I have a few more things to hammer down on the first half of the book before I can rework the ending, so we'll see how that all goes.  

Got some other side jobs on the horizon, too, including a comedy sketch I'm working on for a sermon illustration.  Should be fun...just wondering who will be the willing recipient of a spit-take.  *cough*


Verity
She's having an awesome summer.  Tons of swimming opportunities, thanks to [info]cynthiamary  and some other folks.  We've had a lot of family visits, too, which rocks her world.  She adores her cousins, aunts, uncles, grandparents, etc.  She can't get enough of people.  She also has a weekly play date set up while her boyfriend's mom and I work in the library.  She continues to amuse me.  The other day she told me I could join her fan club.  Mmmhmm.  'S my kid.


Life-In-General
The weather's brought on a spark in my mood, so I've been feeling mad social lately.  Between getting out to write and hanging out with friends, my only complaint is that I'm behind on my reading.  Recent reads include The Physick Book of Deliverance Dane by Katherine Howe, Ghostgirl: Homecoming by Tonya Hurley and Strange Angels by Lili St. Crow.  All great, all very different!  Reading The Book Thief now!  :-D  Still hoping to get the roof done this summer, and having lots of automotive issues -- those are our biggest concerns right now, so we're really stinkin' blessed.

That's about it.  Gonna see if Miss V wants to head out to the lake today.  Whaddya wanna bet she says yesssss?

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RCVRY Monday: The long, cold death the winter brings [May. 18th, 2009|10:04 am]
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On the agenda for today:

Laundry folded
Laundry put away
Attic hallway cleared out
Guest room readied for Dad's visit
Dishes
Verity's table work
Take a walk with V
Bathe V

Quiet time
Crit pages sent
Critique for awesome book that I'm mad excited about.  Author, you know who you are.
Answer email

This is shaping up to be a nice day.

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Obligatory Mother's Day Post [May. 10th, 2009|10:42 am]
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[Current Music |"The World I Love" -- Jimmy Eat World]

For Mother's Day, Verity gave me two hours of research time while she played and watched Tinkerbell.  Best.  Present.  Ever.

And look!  I have cool research stuff now!  One article from today's work is particularly appropriate:

"Many are called, but few are chosen and the rest are married . . . Where are the chorus girls of yesteryear?  They're at home, rocking the cradle, watching the children at their homework or waiting for the pride of the family to come home from college."

 
  -- Lew Fields, of the Weber & Fields Music Hall
"The Girls Who Used to Lead the Chorus"
June 18, 1916 interview, The New York Times
read full article; registration is free
 

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MOM UPSIDE-DOWN IS WOW! Baby anger sweat smells pretty putrid. [Mar. 11th, 2009|06:23 pm]
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I am not a bad mother.
I am not a bad mother.

I planned to go see a band play tonight.  V was coming with. 

But when Daddy got her up to get her ready, she got mad.  Over the boots she asked to wear.  That Daddy put on her.  That she decided she did not want to wear. 

Screaming.  Anger sweat.  Throwing herself around in her crib.  Full-out tantrum.  For an hour, save the time she thought that if she was quiet, she could go.

Um.  No.

Boy went on without us.  He had a meeting, he had to go. 

I am trying to teach TantrumFaceAngerSweat (is it really possible that this THING is also my sweet "rock star like Cinderella" kid?) that there are consequences to actions.  Yes, she's three.  And yes, I wonder if I'm being too harsh.

But then I think, "Am I beating her?  Am I withholding food from her?  Am I telling her she's worthless?" 

No. 

I am not letting her go to an event where she will have fun.  Where she will see people she likes. 

If I can't do this, will I be able to ground her when she's sixteen?

No.  I won't.

Moms of teenagers, I salute you.

And Verity, dearling, I love you.  A lot.  That's why we're not going to have mad loads of fun tonight. You WILL go to bed knowing you're special, important, smart, and loved.  But you'll also know that all those great things don't mean you can treat people poorly.
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RCVRY Monday: The state line felt like the Berlin wall [Mar. 9th, 2009|12:07 pm]
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Yesterday I totally spazzed out. 

Why?

'Cause I made a list of everything I had to do outside of everyday life stuff BEFORE I could work guilt-free.  Then I put things down on little sticky notes.  And I put the sticky notes on the door.

And there were 18 sticky notes. 

So I buckled down and worked worked worked and as of this morning, I only have 4 Sticky Notes of Guilt on the door.

I AM THE AWE.
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Babykid has been in a foul mood most of the day.  She does chores now--little things, of course--mostly picking up her toys.  So about an hour before naptime, I had her help me clean up her extremely messy room.

She cried for 45 minutes as she did it.

And, of course, it made me feel like I was Frau Evil in a Nazi work camp.  I kept telling myself, "I'm not doing her any real favors by doing everything for her.  She needs to develop a work ethic.  She will not try to kill me in my sleep because of this.  Dadgummit, she needs a clean room, and since she trashed it yesterday..." 

I need a mantra.  One that incorporates all those feelings (or most of them) into a tiny sentence.  No more than 6 words. 

Maybe it should just be, "I am TOO a good mom." 
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If you're not reading [info]sarahtales 's blog, you should be.  And if you don't know what TeamCastle is, you should. 

What is TeamCastle? YA authors Maureen Johnson, Cassie Clare, Robin Wasserman, Holly Black, Carrie Ryan, Ally Carter, Diana Peterfeund, Sarah Rees Brennan, Sarah Cross, and Jennifer Lynn Barnes decided to be more awesome than everyone else ever and rent a castle in Ireland, in which to write for, what, a week? 

They're twittering their adventures, and most everyone is blogging occasionally, too.  But sarahtales (SRB) keeps cracking me up. 
 
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Speaking of Carrie Ryan, THE FOREST OF HANDS AND TEETH comes out tomorrow, right?  Oy!  Fun!
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MOM UPSIDE-DOWN IS WOW! Miss V this morning. [Feb. 9th, 2009|09:34 am]
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[info]jbknowles  challenged her readers with a warm-up this morning:

Write to the prompt, "I spy with my little eye..."
I really do want to know what you see right now, so share! What small thing just caught your eye?


i spy with my little eye
the line of doughnut icing on babykid's face
the flyaway blonde strands of her hair
the lines of dirt under her fingernails
the embroidered flower on her spring green t-shirt
the upturn of her mouth as she hears a funny line in a song
the wiggle of her hips as she enjoys the music
the careful movement of her fingers as she stacks picture books
and arranges her Ginger Snap doll
striations on old oak end tables
strand of translucent pink beads
ceramic tea set, two of the pieces irreparable
Barbie, called Darby by those iced lips.

Goofy Picspam )

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MOM UPSIDE-DOWN IS WOW! Google fun! [Jan. 23rd, 2009|03:36 pm]
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I'm considering making a new semi-regular post topic on being a mom.  So I can snark and brag alternately.  WUDN'T U GIZE JUS LUV DAT?

If you saw the words MOM UPSIDE-DOWN IS WOW! (or whatever I decided to call the, um, topic) in the subject line, you would immediately know that TMI would likely be included in the post.   So I would never have to issue a disclaimer. 

Disclaimers are for wusses.

To kick it off (even though I probably won't follow through), here's today's MOM UPSIDE-DOWN IS WOW! post.

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One of the VERY BEST things about being a mom is you have cause to Google terms such as "sandy poop toddler".

Yeah.

Turns out sandy poop can be caused by TOO MUCH FIBER and CONSTIPATION.  THEY ARE OPPOSITE THINGS!  Is your mind boggling  yet?   Mine is! 

I think Miss V's problem is TOO MUCH FIBER, since she's been eating loads of shredded wheat and has already gone kucky twice, before the sandy poopy time, today.  

See?  Wasn't that informative?  Don't you want more posts like this one?
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